Instead, try to create

Instead, try to
create opportunities that lead to positive experiences,
especially with your partner around. Let your partner feel
that they can feel more at ease when he or she is together
with you. Let your partner feel more comfortable when being
with you than with somebody else.

(3) Avoid discussing issues relating to your rivals.

Whenever you are with your spouse or lover do not keep
asking or questioning them on issues relating related to
your rival (Examples: “Where did you go yesterday?” “What
did you give her?”, “Why does he / she do this?”, you get
what I mean). Asking such questions would only put his
defense system on autopilot and his / her replies to you
might not be truthful too. Most often than not, such
discussions lead to unpleasant experiences with your
partner, both of you might even fight or quarrel over an
insignificant issue and further ruin your relationship.
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